Tuesday, October 14, 2014

Importance Of Seeking Emotional Abuse Counseling

By Patty Goff


When a person designs subjugate or control for another person by posing fear, verbal utterances, corporeal assault and humiliation is considered as an abuse. Emotional abuse counseling services assist individuals who have encountered such assaults. These strategies are essential in helping individuals who have experienced abuse such as criticism and verbal abuse and other behaviors like manipulation, refusal to be pleased and intimidation.

It is systematic strategy to wear away the confidence of those involved, their self-concept, self-worth as well as the trust of their own perceptions. Results are often similar whether it is done through consistent belittling, intimidation and under guise of guidance, teaching or advice. In most scenarios, the recipient of such psychological torture loses their senses and remnant of personal value. It cuts every core of an individual and creates a mark that is deeper and lasting compared to physical ones.

This kind of abuse can be categories into the following three dimensions. That is manifestation in abusive behavioral patterns such as denying, aggressive and minimizing

This can include a situation the authority through validating or judging the victim and undermining the equality and autonomy that is significant for a healthy relationship. This practice is common in communication between a parent and a child.

Aggressive abuse can takes a scenario whereby the abuser distinguishes him or her as assisting. For example, in their attempt to assist, they criticize, advising, analyzing, advising, offers solution and questioning sincerity of such assistance. In some situations these behaviors can be an attempt to belittle, control demean rather than offering help. This is often associated with I know it all attitude. The approach is creates unequal footing and inappropriate.

Another type of denying is withholding. This includes refuse to communicate, refusing to listen and emotionally retreating as a punishment. Psychologist often refers to this action as the quiet treatment. Countering is where the abuser perceives the recipient as extension to them as well as denies any viewpoints or feeling that differs from their own.

Minimizing is seen as minor form of denial by most psychologists. For example, telling the victims that they are sensitive, blowing things out of proportions and exaggerating. Meaning the victims interpretations, emotional perceptions and attitudes are incorrect and should not be depended on.

According to most psychologists, minimizing is less form of denial. In this case the abuser does not denies a particular action or event but questions the reactions of the victim to emotional experiences or emotional. This includes telling the victim that he or she is exaggerating, being sensitive or blowing out certain things of proportion. This means that one is simply suggesting that the emotions and perceptions of victims are incorrect as well as should not be trusted and only your experiences or point of view is correct and should be depended on.




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